Saturday, January 2, 2010

Rules of falling love with you ex again

Rule No. 1 - Let your ex go...


No, you read it right. Instead of trying to pull your ex's hand and the rest of his/her body desperately in a bid to stop your ex from walking away just let your ex go. Your ex would be hurt and might require a little time and space to cool down.

The first rule is to thus let your ex breathe and think freely so that he/she has ample time to think over his/her actions. Within a short time, your ex will calm down and probably regret having left you in haste.

Rule No. 2 - Accept the split and apologize...Or at least pretend to...

The next rule is to accept that the breakup has taken place and indicate so to your ex. This will lift a heavy mental block from both you and your ex and will now open the doors for a reunion.

You should also apologize verbally or write a letter apologizing for wrongdoings committed by you as this is the only way that your ex will be able to forgive and forget. These rules are necessary to clean the old slate of the past so as to write about the future.

Rule No. 3 - Maintain maturity...

Instead of wasting your energy trying to spite your ex or crying your heart out at the mere mention of his/her name, maintain a mature demeanor at all times, especially when in front of your ex or mutual friends. Cultivate a hobby, start working out and attack your office work with diligence to keep yourself occupied.

More importantly, keep smiling as this infectious action will soon be observed and admired by your ex. He/She will not feel threatened around you and will also start to warm up towards you as a new sense of respect envelops your ex.

Rule No. 4 - Provide physical and mental attraction to win your ex back...

During this time, make sure to upgrade your looks, your wardrobe and also boost up your confidence levels. Let your ex get impressed by what he/she sees and hears.

This will attract your ex back towards you just as it might have during the past. While speaking too, make it a point to steer casually towards those fun times that you might have had in the past. Your ex will sub-consciously fall right back in love with you again.

These rules must be obeyed if you want to see your ex falling for you again and by following them your ex is sure to walk right into your waiting arms again.

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